Tips For Seducing Women

January 3, 2017

I am so sick of men being pathetic at seducing us I thought I would lay out some guidelines

After you get a woman on the date you want to make sure you can take her home and successfully seduce her. This means that you need to be set up to be prepared for anything and everything.

Girls love to sit down and get to know a guy while being wined and dined. They love to be served and feel beautiful, like a princess. There are subtle ways that you can do that make it different than anything they’ve experienced before.

Don’t do the usual chip and dip and a bottle of wine. Go to a little more effort than you usually would.

First off clean up your place, as women don’t like mess. Make sure your place is clean, that your bed is made and clean your bathroom. Make sure that there are no whiskers in the sink and that the toilet seat is gone.

Do all of your dishes, take the garbage out and your place doesn’t smell. Wash any dirty socks.

Yet another thing that is very important to women is a guest towel with which to wipe their hands with and enough toilet paper on the roll.

Remember this – the cleaner your place is the more likely she is to respect you and also feel safe when she is with you. You will also appear powerful, as she will wonder where you found the time to make your place so nice.

Prepared cheese plates, wine and champagne is going to impress her. Avoid spreads that are too strong like ones with garlic or onions as their main ingredient as it will make her nervous about her breath and yours. Stick to blander but interesting foods.

Most women like Brie cheese and you can this at most local supermarkets or discount gourmet stores. However it’s not about over doing it, it’s about little touches that fascinate and leave her wanting more. For instance lay a little flower beside the Brie or use an antique cheese spreader.

A real delicacy is black caviar on a slice of avocado on top of a table cracker. This is the kind of thing you could easily feed her.

Strawberries and chocolate are also a good choice as they are both seduction foods as well.

Get some white wine and champagne as well. One bottle should be enough.

If you have a fireplace, light it. Yet another reason why your woman appreciates firelight or candlelight is because it is simply more flattering. Great candle scents are vanilla, orange, patchouli or sandalwood. Get the mood right no matter if you are dating a divorced woman from DivorcedDater.com or a Jewish girl from MatchJewish.com , get the mood right!

Make sure you enough music for several hours, without having to keep getting up to change it. Did you know that you can sign up for tunes for free and have the use of their 24 hour streaming radio, in every genre is also free? As long as you have a high-speed Internet connection, you can enjoy music no commercials all night.

 

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Secret Places To Find a Date

April 9, 2016

Why is it that some men always seem to have a pretty woman on their arm while others can’t even seem to ever have the date?

The secret is that these men know where to hang out to find the perfect date.

The worst place to try and find a date is on a some kind of dateless excursion that you are on yourself. For instance if you go to the local singles bar you are not going to find the perfect date because you are already mingling with other people who are unable to get a date. This means you are not looking at the cream of the crop.

Here are five secret places where you are most likely to find the date of your dreams …

1. A local coffee shop or café during the day.

Meeting a woman that is full of caffeine is better than meeting one that is full of alcohol. A woman that meets you when she is in her right mind is more likely to genuinely like you for who you really are rather than trying to grasp at straws for a bed mate at last call in a bar.

2. In a grocery store.

A grocery store is a warm friendly place where a woman feels secure. Your best tact in this case is to seem a bit helpless as if you don’t know which product to buy. Simply approach the woman that you are interested in and ask her for advice about what you should do. Women enjoy seeing men act helpless around things that should actually be in their jurisdiction. This can usually lead to a long conversation.

3. Crafts and cooking classes.

If you want to meet women, do what women do. One of the best places to meet them is in their domain. Take a class that you normally wouldn’t in jewelry making or pastry decorating. You are bound to meet a lot of women there.

4. In a park but bring your dog!

One of the best props you can carry as a single man looking for a date is a pet. Women love dogs and they will see you as being gentle.

5. Using online dating services.

If you are serious about finding as soul mate then it is worth putting a profile up on an online dating service like those listed at Datingville.com . The key is to get to know as many women as possible by sending them messages so they know you are interested and in the dating game. Make sure any messages that you do send them are witty, courteous and polite.

 

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Seducing With A Tomato Water Martini

January 27, 2015

Want to impress your next date that you met on SilverDating.com ?. Try the latest rage – the Tomato Water Martini.

Tomato water can be described as being the essence of the tomato. It has been all the rage since Martha Stewart featured it on her show recently. Chefs on television are now busy including tomato water in all kinds of recipes. It is also used as a decorative drizzle on a plate.

You would think that tomato water would be red or pink but it is actually a pale yellow juice. It also a very strong smell that goes well with anything that goes well with tomatoes including olives, tomatoes and salads.

Tomato water is usually enhances with a bit of a salt. It is a gourmet item so it only needs a small amount of salt to become the base for summer cocktails and soups. You can also add them to pickle recipes to give them more of a nip.

Tomato water is great for making tomato water martinis and also for making richly flavored gazpachos and cucumber based soups. In fact the tomato water martini is also sometimes dubbed as the dirty martini. Usually these martinis are garnished with interesting things like caper berries or pickled tomatoes. For a different treat try making the tomato water martini with gin instead of vodka. Tomato martinis are becoming all the in the big fancy bars in New York, Los Angeles and Miami.

To make the tomato water, puree ripe tomatoes and place the mixture in triple-ply cheesecloth. Tie the cheesecloth together in a bundle Hang the bundle or let rest in a chinois, with a bowl resting underneath to catch the tomato drippings. Leave the puree to drain at room temperature overnight. Let it drip for as long as possible. The next morning, the liquid captured from the tomato bundle will be deeply flavored and aromatic. You can bottle this tomato water and put it in the fridge and use it to make great salad dressings or you can drizzle it on bread along with some olive oil. Don’t use tomato water that has been sitting all day unrefrigerated on the counter.

If you want your tomato water to turn out right make sure you make it in the manner just described. Don’t try to use some kind of press or blenders. Just manually chop up the tomatoes and bundle them and let them be. In a way the less bruising and manual handling done of the tomatoes themselves the better the tomato water will taste in the end.

 

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Bad Marriage Equals Heart Trouble

November 6, 2011

It may be that the broken heart is not just a metaphor. There have been some studies done that say that a bad relationship can lead to real heart trouble.

A bad marriage cannot only break your heart but according to a story aired on CNN it can also cause physical heart trouble. The Archives of National Medicine in the U.K. Published a study done at the University of Medicine in London about the effect of toxic relationships on the heart and found that you were more likely to have heart attacks or other types of problems if you can’t get along with the opposite sex.

The study was done on a whopping 9,011 British civil servants, most of them married. Their love lives were examined over a period of twelve years. Those with the worst close relationships were 34 percent more likely to have heart attacks or other heart trouble during the 12 years of follow-up than those with good relationships. That study included partners, close relatives and friends.

This news of course greatly depresses me because I here as a young woman having bad date after bad date. After each bad date my tension level goes up which is bad for your heart. I also get disappointed and depressed and sometimes gorge on foods that are bad for me which is also not good for the heart. Sometimes I get a really bad case of “what’s the point?” which has me lying in bed all day. This contributes to a lack of exercise and then fatness and then … an early heart attack.

When I fight with a member of the opposite sex I don’t like the way I feel. I can feel my heart beating. I often feel nauseous and sometimes I feel so mad I feel like I could faint. As men don’t like female anger I rarely express it. However bottling up your anger might be one of the worst things a woman can do for her heart.

Another study that was published in the journal Psychosomatic Medicine reported that women who kept silent during domestic fights were more likely to die early then those that didn’t. The study was done on 4000 people in a ten-year period. If this isn’t the justification for hitting the wife beater back I don’t know what is. What a great motivation for getting out of a bad relationship as well. It is actually bad for your health! Unfortunately lots of women I know like the things that are bad for their health including crash dieting, cigarettes and relationships with boors who abuse them both physically and mentally. Telling a woman that her relationship with this guy who is a beater or who is not that into her is bad for her heart is a bit of overkill for this type of women. This is because she will always think of herself last and put the guy first.

Staying single is looking better and better.

 

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